Questions for this Week.

How should an American discuss the current political debate going on in the country today with out alienating friends, families and colleagues?

Perhaps you have run into this dilemma. I have and it becomes heated and uncomfortable very quickly. The following paragraph sets up the debate as I understand it:

The USA is going through its usual historical transition from one presidency to another. This transition is different because we are also going from a conservative(some would say neo con) perspective to a more progressive perspective(some would even call it liberal)

The party who has just left control is trying desperately to redefine itself in time for the mid-term elections in 2011-2.

The Obama administration has staked out major areas to change or address:a declining economy which they say is exacerbated by and includes: the cost and inclusiveness of our health care system, creating jobs, and, assuring that the banking system survives and is regulated properly. Finally, they want to reduce the impact of negative climate change and the US dependence on foreign oil.

These are also know as fix the bank/wall street debacle and create new positive core values in the financial sector. Insure 47 million Americans without health care. And, oh by the way, if you loose your job, have a previous health problem and/or can not afford today's insurance cost, you can not be rejected from health insurance.

And lastly, let's prevent any further climate change destruction of our planet.

I think I have it.

The questions are: One, should you discuss these issues and how do you do so without crashing into the opposing attitude of friends, family and colleagues who may think differently than you. And how do you avoid being labeled as liberal, conservative, progressive, neo con, far right, far left, centrist?

Interesting no? There is a tried and true way to avoid conflict: simply never discuss politics, religion or social issues with any one. Well, come on, that does not work so I have developed a question when the conversation goes toward the political/social debate mentioned.

It is: Do you feel in any way responsible for your fellow man? You can of course peel that back to neighbors, fellow-Americans, Europeans, etc. If the answer is yes or no, and it reflects your philosophy, you are home free, If what you hear does not reflect your philosophy and you are not really skilled at conversation perhaps best to move on. If,however, you are up to a confrontation, go for it but remember i told you so!

Like to hear what you think

Thanks

Ted